to talk about being an “alpha”, a term that has been misjudged for a long time
due to pop culture stereotypes. He is big; he is tall, he is smart and strong-
he is the alpha, right? Well, not really. Let’s go through our list of
characteristics to find the attractive alpha lurking just around the corner.
They do not rely on others
Ladies, we are
not talking about men who handle their own social media accounts. Instead, we
are talking about everyday jobs that help us in living a better life. An alpha
male will never be hesitant in cleaning the bathroom after use or washing his
car without any help.
generalizing this point is unfair, yet the basics never change. A soldier going
on war and a doctor helping his patients can both be regarded as alpha.
Basically, alpha does not wait for an opportunity or for someone else to take
the first step. Alternatively, they work hard to get whatever they wish for and
lead others toward change.
seems hesitant in talking to a stranger or walking in an unexplored territory
can never be an alpha. But beware, don’t misjudge the calm and consistent alpha
with a reckless idiot who makes impulsive decisions and lands in a soup
They are patient
The easiest way
to spot a false alpha is by noting their impatience and lack of
confidence. A person who is faking
toughness will be easily disturbed if things do not go according to his plans.
Anybody who is shouting at others for being late or accusing someone of their
misery can never be THE alpha. Sometimes even an alpha male can have a bad day,
but a fake one will always crumble down in a serious situation.
natural confidence remain calm even at the edge of setback. They know that
things are not perfect and work around the situations to achieve their goals.
Alpha males downright accept change even if it is not in their favour. If he
can handle things on his own and can quickly understand a situation, then he is
looks like an alpha male is great at everything, it’s merely an illusion. Only
movie alphas are perfect who can dodge bullets, kill people with a pencil
(yeah, we are talking about John Wick!) and can still manage to look like they
just exited a salon. Real alphas are not perfect at everything but continue to
learn and improve themselves for the better.
Now you know
alphas are not your regular dudebros in a gym grunting with each rep. They are
real men, with real personalities and some real flaws. Often, the real leader
of the pack is not the noisiest or most attractive guy. Instead, he is the one
who commands respect from all and has the ability to persuade others to do
their best. Who doesn’t want to be with a man like that?